Well, as I'm sure you noticed, I was offline for a while. This is because the 2 most recent places that in I've been to (Romania and Austria), I have been staying with people who were not only kind enough to put me up for several days at a time, but also made it their business to make sure that I didn't miss anything that their hometowns had to offer. As it were, I felt like I spent too much time online trying to figure out the next stops (travelling without a plan is actually pretty stressful). It's hard to explain but each time I was online, my hosts were literally just waiting for me to get off the computer, this is the level of hospitality I received. But, I will recant my journeys now that I am alone again.
My first stop after leaving Spain was Romania, specifically Bucsani, Romania, which is where Marina was born and raised until 2nd grade. Marina's cousin Dan was getting married, and I was fortunate enough to be invited. However, upon arrival, I realized that I had not brought appropriate footwear. I only have beat up Vans sneakers, running shoes, and flip-flops. The first night was spent trying to find someone from whom I could borrow shoes. Apparently, I have big feet in Romania. But we finally found out that the father of the groom has the same size feet, so it all worked out.
Romanian weddings are very complicated and they last ALL day. Literally. The beginning of the first ceremony was at noon and we left the reception around 4:30 AM, leaving about 30 people still dancing behind us. Having not known what to expect, I am extremely grateful to have been allowed to see experience something most Americans never will. I will give you some details and then a few pictures.
The first ceremony is the civil ceremony, and it takes place in City Hall. It is a smaller ceremony, mostly just family and close friends, which I was fortunate enough to be included in. Basically, a civil clerk asks the couple to sign some documents and they are legally married. There is a small celebration where everyone holds flowers over their heads in a tunnel-fashion. But this is not the big celebration.
The big ceremony is the wedding in the church (Greek-Orthodox). Unfortunately, I forgot that I had left my camera battery on the charger and could not take any pictures and Marina forgot her camera entirely, so you'll just have to take my word that it was a beautiful ceremony. It really was. There were several priests involved and lost of chanting/singing. It was pretty cool, and they were dressed differently this time. Tuxedo and bridal gown, not like the civil ceremony (which the pictures are from). They take communion together and there is a part where they both wear these crowns...hard to explain because I don't even get it since the whole ceremony was in Romanian. The funniest part apparently was that the priest called them both by their middle names the whole time, even after the speech about how close he was to their families.
Even though the actual wedding was completely different from anything we in the USA have ever seen, the most surprising part of the wedding was the reception. We walked to a nearby hotel from the church. Downstairs was the reception, and upstairs was where people from out of town were given rooms to stay in. The reception "started" at nine in the evening, but the first course of food wasn't served until 10:00. The fifth (and final, thank goodness) wasn't served until 3:30 in the morning. Between each course was plenty of dancing and talking with the people at our table. Luckily, Marina and I were sitting with the other "youngsters," most of whom speak English well enough, and who are nice enough to engage me from time to time. The dancing was quite varied. Traditional Romanian song and dance (which is not easy or simple, let me tell you) to Jungle Book themes (that's right, they dance to Disney) to Elvis tunes, it was quite a night. The surprising part was that people did not leave early. Some of the people who were still there when we left were some of the oldest, and it was quite late. But I suppose if there is anything worth celebrating to the max, it is a wedding.
- The newlyweds, at the civil ceremony
- Marina and I, from the balcony outside the civil ceremony
- The tunnel of flowers, after the civil ceremony
- The groom, Dan, with all the girls
- The Bride, Carmen, with all the guys